he just says it best!

[pywacket]

This is a forwarded message
From: James Martini
To: gloom
Date: Thursday, December 13, 2001, 9:03:25 PM
Subject: [Gloom] We're having a little...

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GIRL!

That's right the Martini family line will soon be adding a little femme
fatale to it's ranks. Yes soon you will witness a tiny child twist a grown
man into a malleable slave to her every whim.

On the up side I'll get to make vague yet disturbing threats to the boys
that will come to court her. She may not be born yet but they're out there.
I know it, and they only want one thing. The little perverts.

Darth Daddy


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I'm healthy, though close to having high blood pressure so I hafta be careful.
I'm not gaining weight too fast either, actually I'm on the low side. The amnio is normal and now I can relax...into the terror and happiness of having a child.

a daughter...karma can be fun can't it? Perhaps this is the chance to end the cycle that started perhaps with my mother's mother.

All that really matters is that she's healthy. We'll do our best and save for her therapy.

WHEW.

Comments

[jetgrrl01.livejournal.com]

Yay! I'm soooo happy for you. You'll do great. The fact that you know there is a history in your family solves most of the problems that might repeat. You're gonna be the best mommy! :)

[http://users.livejournal.com/batty_/]

she is going to be one amazing little girl.


congratulations.

[eac.livejournal.com]

Whheeeeeee!

Yay!

[asleeponsunbeam.livejournal.com]

Congrats! She is going to be a lucky girl with such cool parents :)

xoxo
J

[vintagoth.livejournal.com]

I think your going to be a fabulous mom, and hvaing such a strained mom-daughter relationship yourself is only going to make you try even harder..this is the bonus we of abusive families receive when we finally have beans of our own :)
I don't know if I've mentione dit yet.. but I am learning to knit..oh the fun things I will knit!! :P

YAY

[carriemonster.livejournal.com]

Woo!
Now we need to start planning that baby shower! :)

*smooch*

[thingie.livejournal.com]

yay! c'est une fille!

[mstinkerbell.livejournal.com]

as I count down days I jump for joy with you! I know you will be a great mother, and such an adorable happy, healthy family! I am so happy for you sweetie!! Now, do we do purple velvet dresses or red? :)

[lollipoptrollop.livejournal.com]

Wow! Didn't know you were going to be a mum! And all your kitties will be aunts & uncles.. I'm veddy happy for you :) & I'm sure you'll be a most lovely & wonderful l'il mum! Your daughter is already a lucky little girl~*~*~

thank you all

[pywacket.livejournal.com]

for your kind comments...I can't express how much I appreciate them as I am now worried about not being a perfect mom--I know no one is perfect, but you can still want to be!


big smooches to you all...you really made my day.